“I would say that what we hear is the quality of our own listening” – Robert Fripp “Listening can be an entryway from one world into another… our perspective shifts from “I” to “you” , and suddenly, we emerge into another world. When we discover our...
Finding a therapist you can trust to hold your relationship well is important. You need to know that the person you’re choosing can actually tend to the big picture of where you two need to go as well as track the subtle, covert dynamics in the moment. And, we...
Why is it so hard to fight cleanly in the midst of an argument with the person we are supposed to love most, particularly when we already know tools and techniques for kinder conflict resolution? Why do we choose to punish our partners rather than play fair? It’s...
You’ve experienced them. The attractive person in front of you at the coffee shop who smiles at you and makes some witty comment, and all of a sudden you feel intensely drawn to this stranger and start desperately plotting ways to sit down next to them and carry on...